Black and White Version: Synopsis: Imagine how it would feel to be thrown the lion's den and you were the main course. It would be terrifying and life changing right? Divorce, heartbreak, low self-esteem, and loneliness often times feel the same way. What if you can change the way you feel by learning to let go of all that emotional baggage you have been caring with you for all those years? What happens when or if you're special someone decides "they don't love you anymore!" Can you really just "un-love" someone you gave your heart too? How do you "get over" love or should I say "recover" from love? You've spent months maybe even years caring, adoring, putting them before your own needs, constantly seeking new ways to express your affections and devotions for them. Then in a blink of an eye, you must give that up. Most times it's so abrupt your just left devastated with your eyes puffy and bloodshot along with sleeves filled with mascara. There has been no shortage of the amount of advice from different versions basically telling you to just "find someone else." How do you just "STOP" loving someone who has become part of your own soul? My heart didn't just break, it completely stopped. It has been said Love is the world's strongest force and I am just supposed to whip up the strength to WILL it away Is this a more formidable foe this thing we call Love or maybe it's just a monster that eats its own heart. The aching and emptiness that clutches your heart tight, how do you escape? I feel we are really misled as kids, we're taught the Princess kisses the frog and get a Prince. But in my reality, I kiss the frog and get a leech, a pig, a dog or a jackass! So come take a journey with me to discovering the keys to overcoming all the roadblocks that prevent us from having the relationships and healthy emotions that we want and need. With the increasing trend of divorce for the late Baby Boomers of Generation Jones, Generation X and Generation Y, women are crying out for a niche specialty such as self-help. Let's face it, we all have emotional baggage. When choosing a self-help book, not all books are created the same, just as not all people are the same. With that being said, my book offers help to the working class, middle class, and the common people that can't afford help from a high paying Psychologist or Therapist. The language is set in a tone that is easy for the reader to understand, as if I were speaking to you as if you were one of my closest friends giving you advice. For I am, the common people, my advice comes from my own personal life experiences or the life experiences that some of my friends and family have encountered. Real life issues explained with humor, sarcasm, wit, charm and compassion. The book also helps women to avoid the common pitfalls that most "Newbies" to the single world encounter such as the "Serial Dater", "The Player ", "the Cougar Status", "the Momma's Boy", "The Control Freak" "The Knight in Shining Armor" and many more types of men we single gals encounter.. Finally, let's face it. With the increasing trend of divorce, long-term relationships ending, mid-life beginning, marital affairs, broken hearts, social media, on-line dating and all the "BROKEN" men of the world. What woman isn't looking for SomeThing More So let your own personal Journey begin and remember, this is Not your Momma's Self-help Book