In the seventies, there was a very popular song entitled, "The Second Time around." I was married at the time to my first wife, and had no reason to believe that the song would ever apply to me or my wife. But in 1977, we were divorced because of "irreconcilable differences." Suddenly I was in the dating world. What does a 47-year-old father of three know about dating? I had been married for 20 years, and now I'm not.