The mating act lies at the heart of men's sexual drive and women's desire for family. So heterosexual women's sexuality has always been defined in terms of intercourse. But Alfred Kinsey challenged this view. This book follows on from his work, which remains the most comprehensive and authoritative account of sexuality we have. It promotes ideas for a variety of techniques beyond intercourse. It also suggests how couples can enjoy great sex by understanding men and women's emotional needs.Jane Thomas writes about sexual techniques and sex play that focus on pleasuring women. She tries to bring some common sense to sex education. She recommends a sense of humour and a sense of fun to heterosexual couples who hope to enjoy an active sex life over decades together.Jane is passionate about combatting sexual ignorance and makes her work available via the internet to encourage discussion of the issues by the widest possible audience. This book has been revised & updated in 2021.