Whether you are looking for marriage, partnership, or simply companionship, choosing a lover can be a tricky business. Attraction is a complicated matter of psychology, emotion, and physicality; how do you know when you can trust your instincts? Many people have fallen in "love at first sight" and later found that such love didn’t endure. People don't come into the world with instruction manuals for how to love or live their lives. How do you find your soul mate? Where can you look for direction?