"Pamala has written a tender, compelling life treatise that, at once, wraps us up in the Arms of Love that we always hoped would be there for us when we most needed it- and then also helps us to wrestle with life's most vexing, torturous questions - 'how can a loving Father allow such pain, drawn out over seasons of agony?' Pamala's answers, emerging in the gentle glory of her own loss and life journey will inspire you to proclaim, through the tears and long nights of your own travail, 'There is a way- I can endure, I will prevail.'" - Lance Lee PhD, EdD Senior Psychotherapist, Oasis Center Executive Pastor, The Vine Church Wan Chai, Hong Kong