Do you know what it takes to find the right person? Follow my rocky journey through life before I finally saw the light! Hopefully it will help you save yourself a lot of grief! I lived a life of a lot of obstacles and setbacks because I didn't take the time to ask myself what I wanted from or expected from others. A selfless life is a painful way to go, and a lot of us have done that. So I hope my suffering and finding myself will give you the encouragement to try it.