This book doesn't presume to know why you want confidence around women. Perhaps you want to get married and live happily ever after. Maybe you become a stumbling idiot whenever a pretty woman is within a twenty-foot radius and seek to fix that. Some no doubt just want to get laid. Whatever your motivation, we'll guide you in marketing yourself to women and engaging them without going to pieces. Confidence is a feeling that one can rely on something. Will that something be you? Confidence is not concrete or tangible, but you know it when you see it. How many times have you seen a guy who knows exactly what to do? He controls the room simply by the way he walks and talks with others. This is confidence, and women LOVE this. Confidence is not a parachute you can deploy when a woman approaches though. Confidence is armor you must wear all times which will grant you strength and courage in the face of uncertainty whatever form it may take. It's a way of life, a byproduct of carrying yourself a certain way and living a certain way. Do it all the time and it will serve as a fine marketing tool in connecting with women. Gaining confidence is about altering your perception and finding peace in wearing your own skin. ...because confident men make life easier for them. They cause less drama than insecure or irresponsible men. Confident men know how to get things done. They are direct and don't play childish games. When you choose teams for fantasy football, don't you look for players with good stats? Ladies consider confidence an important stat in selecting a potential mate.