Marriage is a ministry, and when accepting a proposal, we need to see beyond a male's natural talents, possessions, gifts, and abilities, in order to see the spiritual man inside.One of the main focuses of this book is about making right choices. God wants women to understand that there is so much more to relationships than what we see on the surface, and He wants us to understand just how real they are. Our relationships with parents, relatives, our children, siblings, and friends have either left positive or negative effects in our lives. The effects of each encounter did not go away when adulthood was reached, but they were carried from one relationship to the next.