The purpose of the book is to share my experience of when I was a mistress. I want women and men to realize that marriage is a union. Polygamy consists of marriage with more than one spouse. Infidelity is wrong. People have to be honest. I have guilt. I am not proud that I played a part in a divorce. I hope this book provides insights into the effects of infidelity. TV and movies glorify being a mistress, but married men or women rarely leave their spouses for the person they are cheating with.