is a sage and personable exploration of the ongoing conflict for good girls and switched on women who are coming to realise that you can't truly be who you are if you always need someone else to say ... But it's more than that. will help you to: Through the combination of her own personal stories, potent learnings and client vignettes, Lauren provides the reassurance that you can be in control, be choosy, have boundaries, speak up, love vanilla be sexual. That, in fact, showing up in life and sex just as you are will actually get you a lot closer to your pleasure and joy.