If you're getting spanked, do you relax into it or tense up and fight it? Adult spanking often brings a release of tension and getting sexual pleasure from it likely will keep you coming back for more. But make no mistake about it, spanking is also for administering discipline, and don't forget about the follow-up punishments like cornertime and stern lectures. There's also taking away privileges like being allowed to wear underwear. But let's not forget about the all important aftercare! There's a look of satisfaction and determination that shows the spanker is proud of his or her work. It's clear he or she enjoys providing the pain, and the responses it gets. Then there's that look that tells the spankee 'we're just getting started!' But chances are the spankee is more concerned about that intense sting that's rapidly developing on his or her rear. That all important stinging butt will be a constant reminder of what happened for sometime to come. But we all want the spanking done right don't we? Of course we do and that's another good reason to get this big book! If you're getting corrected often you'll know about it ahead of time and perhaps automatically put yourself in the right headspace. It's the same if you're spanking for stress relief, or being spanked for it. If you're the spankee perhaps you'd like to do some deep breathing exercises right before, and during the spanking. Perhaps well prior to the event you'd like to use baby or coconut oil to moisturize your butt so the skin might be more elastic. Perhaps you'd like to shave your bottom so a clean smooth surface can be presented to your disciplinarian. That also removes the last vestige of its protection. A good spanker knows a proper warm up is often a key to giving a good long hard spanking, particularly as that could be something the spankee wants and/or needs. A good spanking can be like original music, you make it up as you go along. As long as you practice your skills and maintain your endurance, it can be fun, useful and sexually stimulating! It's not unusual for a spankee to lose sleep the night before his or her punishment. The thought of what's to come can be quite exciting, but scary. Will there be a sexual release afterwards...hmmm...maybe but it could depend on if the spanking is taken properly and there is an adequate change of behavior! The spankee had best promise to be very good! "Spanking Dictionary" presents and defines roughly two hundred adult spanking words and terms in a sexy but articulate manner. Included in this publication are two free bonus books. They are presented in this order: 1) Spanking Dictionary 2) Bare Bottom Spankings (The Las Vegas Spanking Adventure) 3) Bed Arrest, the Punishment for BDSM Enthusiasts Publisher's Note: This book contains explicit sexual content and BDSM. All characters are of legal age.