We are obsessed with the control of reason, we are obsessed with obtaining an explanation that puts us safe from future suffering but, let's stop and think. Let's start by saying that if a person enters our life, that is the right person! In the psyche there is no chance, nothing happens by chance and every person who goes through our life does it to teach us something, for better or for worse, and does it to favor our evolution. Everything that happens to us makes sense, it has an ultimate purpose that is important to grasp, so whenever we feel something, that is the right moment.