Unexpected pivotal events change the course of a lifetime. This book grew from that thesis, sharing stories of specific, transformative "turnings" that shaped an unusual life. Carol Grever is known for her books, blog, and documentary about mixed-orientation relationships and straight-spouse recovery. Now, she reveals with unwavering honesty her own unforeseen history, including extraordinary adventures, heartening discoveries, and spiritual conversion. Whether encountering a gay mate's coming out, a spouse's addiction, or her own spiritual awakening, these stories and poems form a mosaic of courage.