. Are you going through a moment when you feel guilty not crying after a loss? Drawing on her own recovery from loss and from 7 years of research on neurodevelopment and mental performance, helped hundreds of survivors to move forward through trauma in the local community and is providing her answers to such questions in her book. Her book, acknowledges the myths, misconceptions, and social issues we face when dealing with grief, and instead provides a compassion-driven toolbox of ideas and activities to help readers cope with their loss. Here is an extract from this well-structured, detailed focus book. You will discover in the book all elements to build yourself a 'RAFT' including: The book is an essential, practical guide to help you to achieve your goal: instead of being able to think about your lost loved one without crying, you will be able to think about your lost loved one with a smile for the future.