Combining memoir and erotica, Emily Bingham offers bawdy literary pleasures in t. Rollicking sexual adventure and self-discovery intertwine as she explores the search for love with a kinky twist. Rope has always been thrilling to Bingham. As a child she asked playground friends to tie her up with jump ropes. Years later, she would ask a lover to bind her, initiating Bingham's discovery of erotic rope bondage and her decade-long journey through the revelations and pleasures of life in the world of BDSM. Reflecting on her first thirty rope encounters, leads the reader through moments of learning and discovery, magical connection, awkward mishaps, and the harrowing evening when her consent was violated. Bingham's brave and intelligent stories are bound up in moments of self-love and sexual discovery that will resonate with vanilla readers and filthy perverts alike. Honest, poignant, and astonishing, Bingham's book also unflinchingly discusses the importance of consent and boundaries in kinky relationships. is a must-read for bondage enthusiasts, the rope-curious, and anyone seeking a smart, sexy book.