“I could not love this book more. grabbed my heart from the very first pages and took me on a journey that has changed forever the way I think about the legacies we leave—on purpose and by accident—to those we love. In bracing, vivid, generous prose and with crystalline candor, Kingston shares a page-turning and wholly unexpected story about the extraordinary gifts her mother left her, including the most powerful one of all: the tools Kingston needed to carry on without her mom. This book is so full of hard-won wisdom and surprising insight into the challenges and joys of living every day that I want to press it into the hands of everyone I know and say, simply, ‘You must, must read this.’” “ is compelling and heartbreaking and reminded me how beautiful humans can be when life breaks them open. Gwen’s mother executes an act of miraculous love for her children that has a scope and power that will take your breath away. Don’t miss this gorgeous memoir.” “An extraordinary testament to the power of love over death, this book is healing, moving, and ultimately, instructive. The example of one mother’s incredible unconditional love for her daughter, and this daughter’s resilient search to live well in the face of devastating loss, will make readers cry, and also help them through their grief. Though I read this book quickly because I could not put it down, it will nurture me for a long time to come. What a beautiful gift from a mother to a daughter, and for a daughter to her readers.”