"There's a lot of screaming, yelling, and smut-shaming out there about porn. David Ley's reasonable, calm, informed writing should be read by anyone interested in porn-and it should be required reading for anyone tempted to legislate about it."- "An important book for men of all ages, written by an expert in men's (and couples') sexualities."- Our media are filled with cautionary, polarizing messages about the dangers of porn, even while sexually explicit images are exploited deliberately and persuasively in ads and entertainment. With a casual style and topical format, this accessible, funny, and evidence-based book offers anyone feeling shame and anxiety about their own or their partner's behavior a nonjudgmental way to view and use pornography responsibly.