Are you tentatively returning to the dating arena following the end of a relationship? Do you want to successfully find the man of your dreams and avoid the many pitfalls? This book is for you. Written by international dating coach Cynthia Spillman, founder of The International Dating Academy and formerly the Chief Executive of Dinner Dates, is a humorous, practical, and inspirational handbook for the growing mature dating market. Cynthia shows how searching for a fulfilling new relationship must be undertaken mindfully and strategically, and that in order to attract the partner she deserves - a woman must first feel good about herself. Cynthia guides readers through a series of proven steps, encouraging them to examine their previous relationship patterns, and provides a whole host of mature dating skills, strategies, and techniques to be put into practice. The book is divided into three parts: - Get to truly know yourself, and Apply the FLY (First Love Yourself ) principle before searching for a partner. - Know where to look for potential partners and Action this knowledge. - Move from first date to soulmate and Live happily ever after. is an empowering, witty, self-help book, targeted at the large number of women who have been single for years, or who are divorcees or widows. This book will guide and inspire them on their quest for a new soulmate.