(black & white version) Kim Baker's groundbreaking lesbian dating guide, Girls' Guide to Healthy Dating: Between the Breakup and the Next U-Haul, answers the age old question we have when we find ourselves single again: Now what? Girls' Guide to Healthy Dating transforms dating from an exasperating pattern of breaking up then U-Hauling rapidly into another relationship to a model for connecting with other women from a place of balance and authenticity. If you're a lesbian who wants to transform dating from a frustrating search for the right one to adventures in getting to know women to identify compatibility, then this book is for you. For ages, women have gathered around restaurant tables with friends to begrudge the perils of dating as a lesbian. We don't know how to date. We relationship hop. We don't process our past relationships. Unlike other dating advice books where a relationship expert imparts knowledge on to the reader, Kim Baker uses a Sex in the City laid back voice to explore six powerful strategies for revolutionizing how we search for the woman of our dreams. Drawn from mindfulness and the law of attraction, Girls' Guide to Healthy Dating unveils what we intuitively already know: if we really want to change our dating experience, we have to change the way we approach dating. By focusing on getting to know women to identify compatibility, we create more healthy dating experiences, are more likely to notice red flags and deal breakers, and ultimately are more likely to find the one. ...Very good advice for any lesbian who has ever had her heart broken and wants to move on to a new life in dating. - Lynda Many of the concepts in the book go beyond lesbian dating. - Jennifer W. I really enjoyed your voice because you showed vulnerability but ultimately come from a position of strength. -Julie P.