From the founder of Seventy Thirty the first exclusive matchmaking company with relationship psychology at its core, and Lemarc Thomas psychologist and gay relationship expert, comes this intelligent and insightful book; the ultimate guide and relationship advice for the married, coupled up and singletons. From the book "Self-assuredness is something that is very attractive to most gay men. If one is stressed about their sexuality or about being gay, this can be a turn-off. Being comfortable with yourself is a sign of security and wellbeing, which is appealing." And "When there was a bone of contention, gay and lesbian couples tended to throw in a bit of humour and affection to defuse the situation."