A woman called Larry Yeagley four months after a freak accident had killed her son. 'Am I doing something wrong?' she asked. 'I still have real strong pain, and I think about Andy a lot. People give me the impression that I'm sick because I still think about him.'Dealing with such issues as divorce, loss of home, and the emotional pain of problems that simply will not go away, he shows how we can successfully cope with primary losses and secondary losses, or the loss of all those things in our life entwined with the primary losses.