If your lover has left you... If your relationship is on the edge, and you feel fragile and out of control... If you regret walking out... If you're not sure you want your lover back, but you need to understand what happened... You do have a second chance—if you know what has to come first. Falling in and out of love is a natural process that can be understood and mastered.  Love properly understood can be love regained and kept alive for a lifetime. This step-by-step approach developed by psychiatrist Blase Harris works.  It has worked for the people in this book.  And now it can work for you.  Dr. Harris's practical guide shows you how to avoid the common mistakes ex-lovers make, love 100 percent, and get your lover back!