Using revealing anecdotes, case studies, and quizzes, Susan reveals ten essential steps to help you define your own plan of action and change your approach to dating and love forever. • Are you stuck with a dead-end lover? Learn how to say no to B.T.N. (Better Than Nothing) relationships. • Are you convinced that there are no good ways to meet people? Find out why this is one of the biggest myths around and what you can do to prove it wrong. • Do you want love but wonder if you might be better off alone? Learn how to identify your “hidden ambivalence” and how it sabotages your search for love. Written with humor and true been-there-done-that experience, this thinking person’s guide to love will show that actively searching for a mate can be done without sabotaging the better aspects of love and romance. If you’re genuinely interested in finding the perfect love, is your map to happiness.