What happens when we don't know who we are well enough and can't distinguish what we from what we ? is a depiction by educator and life coach Elton Penn about his journey in search of something deeper than flesh and bone. He was single, married, then divorced. Single, yet again, dating once again, and now remarried, Elton discovered pieces of himself that were intentionally and unintentionally ignored for years. In pursuit of figuring out himself, he found keys that he never knew were in his possession that could unlock doors to fulfillment. It is when you realize that you need more and refuse to ignore that craving for satisfaction - that's the catalyst to discovering .