During the second week of the marriage, she dropped another bomb on him by telling him that now that they were married, showing him her left hand, what is his is now hers and what is hers remains hers... Men are afraid and ashamed to speak up because according to who they speak to they could be laughed at and ridiculed for being a " ... Author Ken G. Gordon openly and honestly deals with all the aspects of abuse towards men in this no holds barred book because