Men, this book is written especially for you to study and understand how to face the complicated task of searching out, finding, and selecting a good woman. Good women are not hard to find. But there are parameters that must be employed. Patience and fortitude are two of them. Rome was not built in a day. We all strive to be happy and we must set standards in our lives in order for this to be accomplished. Years ago a young man told me that when a man makes a woman a queen, he inevitably becomes a king, how true! I hope this book brings healing to men who are hurting and being abused. It is okay to cry. Know that you are not alone. May you find solace and peace. Correct your mistakes and move on to a better life. This is my prayer for you. Dr. Margarita D'Andrade