Have you ever wondered where all of the fun and passion from your earliest days with your spouse or partner went? If so, you are not alone. Most couples goes through a similar experience, though not everyone admits to it. Though decreased romantic feelings are often typical over the years, you don't have the follow the path to marital ruin like many others unwittingly do. You can still fuel the fires of intimacy and fun so you don't end up burning out before the finish line, where the wonderful relationship you have always dreamed about is waiting! RELATE: A Guide to Marriage & Relationship Repair Recharge Your Romance. Energize Your Love Life. Laugh Together. Accept Differences. Transform Through Trials. Engage One Another. What is RELATE? The above six steps, Recharge Your Romance, Energize Your Love Life, Laugh Together, Accept Differences, Transform Through Trials, & Engage One Another, also called RELATE, make up a simple program designed by a marital expert to help couples work together to create better relationships. The steps in this book can be worked on individually, with a coach or counselor, or completed as a couple. You can read and complete the exercises in this book as a mini-marathon coaching session in-person or online, or you can do it all on your own! Is RELATE a program that can be of help to you and your relationship? Read here to find out. The RELATE program is designed to aid a couple that is stressed, overloaded, bored, or otherwise desperate for more relationship satisfaction. This program focuses on restoring lost love or respect for one another, and building up a couple to be a solid team once again, or even for the first time. The RELATE program can help even just one member of a relationship to influence the relationship in a healthier way, also, even if the other person is unwilling to participate. Often both partners are committed to the relationship, but only one wants help. However, when one person makes healthy changes in a relationship, a family system often improves. The RELATE program is NOT for the couple that is uncommitted or unwilling to take part in change. Examples of this are where one or both partners are in complete withdrawal from the relationship, when one partner is happily caught up in an affair, when an individual is in an abusive relationship, and in other extreme situations. In these instances, individuals and couples should pursue therapy more specifically tailored to their issues.