This is a book about intimacy and the part it plays in our longing for love, our sexuality, and desire for spiritual love and a sacred space. It is about a desire that we often mistake for physical love. It is our desire for survival that pushes us to seek intimacy. The desire to be known by our lovers and loved in a spiritual space pushes us toward intimacy. This writing is about what I have learned and know to be so about the nature of reality, of intimacy and love.