Irene and I were married after just about 5 weeks of courting. That's right I said courting. We went for coffee, walks at the lake we even listened to worship music in the car and did bible studies at Starbucks. We obviously, rushed the process. Have you ever heard the expression "fools rush in"? It's not just fools that rush in but also couples in their mid-thirties that are certain everything else is right but insist on doing it their way instead of Gods.