It is in my view that all women want differently, need differently, and desire differently in their search to find contentment. However it is also in my view that all of us as humans have been drawn into a cultural overcast which have taught us (as humans) how to need, want and desire in spite of our own inner preferences and between these two statements, most times we are left confused and frustrated. Further our lives are engulfed in contradiction. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . To be totally happy one must have the audacity to think subjectively. It is only when we live honestly within the boundaries we aspire for ourselves then we can truly extend ourselves to someone else. Anthazia Kadir.